I must take care of all my needs in their company

Nitpicks people to death

Leads double life

Sneaks around

Focuses on external things. News world neighbors tv radio. No meditating.

Money and material things top priority.

Treats spouse mate partner wife husband like trash. Clark kent in public.

Anger fills his entire family

 predominant emotion is anger madness childish fits paranoia

alternating with bouts of feigned innocence

it is never their fault

accuses people of smoking even when they are not

Anosognosia. Lack of self awareness

Lack of self awareness he has

 https://www.wikihow.com/Lack-of-Self-Awareness

Finished dinner at 230 am

Hiearchy. They believe in

levels of people that have different worth and importance is their belief system

disrespecting poorer, children. kids.  younger people and women girls females 

authority figures bosses celebs famous are revered

they figure you have to put up with mistreatment if the boss is paying you

Looks is how I am judged. My appearance because I am a female, woman, lady

 any other attributes are not counted. only the way I look

Can you spot 10 signs childish adult?

 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/resolution-not-conflict/201603/can-you-spot-10-signs-childish-adult

I have to learn stoicism around him to survive

He detests doing anything for me

If I survive it is an unexplained miracle of what people call God

He Spends lots of money on electronics

 stereo equipment, electronics, dvd players/recorders, headphones, televisions, reel players, car audio stereo, speakers,

home yard car truck parts

He/she wants to be entertained by the media more than real life here

He throws a temper tantrum over these things..

 touching his truck

moving anything around especially his stuff

throwing anything in the trash

giving something to someone else 

money, his or mine

political issues 

demanding to see movie vindicating trump 

alcohol on my breath especially if I was out somewhere

any clothes I wear that show my ass butt boobs tits, high heel shoes, lingerie

seeing me smoke anything