wants good public image appearing to be agreeable nice to those they don't live with
saying stuff they think people want to hear
then in background in reality can be jealous spiteful hateful mean arrogant
usually wont confront anyone unless it is the person/people they live with
scared to death of what neighbors think of them
They are always trying to read my face
trying to figure out what I am thinking and feeling and what I am
going to do then control my thoughts and actions
by telling me
"YOU shouldn't...."
"You SHOULD........"
"Here is what needs to be done... and you OUGHT to be doing this and that."
(NOT what I am working on at the moment, NOT what I have already planned on doing)
do this, do that.. whatever I am doing at the moment is wrong
they believe I should only do things that suits them
as if they are in charge of not only me but anyone around
The parent Dictator. SO I OUGHT TO quit acting that way myself.
NEVER TELL someone else what they ought to do..
QUESTIONS. Badgering me with questions about any and everything, even simple stuff that doesn't need to be asked. This begins most "arguments", battles, fights as they act like they have the right to know all and then dictate what I can and cannot do
Becomes very upset
If anyone else is moving furniture or anything, organizing for ergonomics and ease of use, changing layout, pattern, place of items
Insists I don't talk to other people, don't tell anyone anything.
I dont want you going over there
Staying too long
I dont want you hanging out there
Wearing out your welcome
Youll end up being like them
They are out to destroy our relationship, up to no good, i dont trust them
Says i am your only friend, others are out to take advantage of you to use you
says stuff like "I'll LET you" do such and such
it's all going downhill, spirals into hell
mean, hatred, disgust
attracted to filthy rotten things, people, places
talks alot about the nasy shit and trashy losers people in the world
says people are out to get whatever they can
will do things like steal lie cheat when no one is looking
afraid of getting caught doing the same bad things they accuse others of doing
says said or did it for my own good
claims i have no common sense and can't think for myself and i don't know what i need or want
