Infantile temper tantrums frequently

You wont find them doing these things

 sitting around in a coffee shop having conversations with people

doing things not making them money

doing things uncomfortable for them

trying new stuff

accepting others as they are without judgment

truly empathizing with anyone

understanding charitable work 

doing anything without first thinking what is in it for me, what am i going to get out of this

Best for himself worst to me

 High quality choice self chosen items for self. Highest best expensive premium premo top of the line long lasting all the way.....regarding food drinks clothes tools auto automobile stereo electronics amps turntable speakers reel player tv television movie theaters shoes cleaning products solvents  metal detectors coins money music books tapes Cd compact disc streaming broadcast services like Pandora , hunting equipment, hobbies, magazines, books, trips, vacations

Purchases lavish items for self: whatever things they like value choose

Cheapest lowest for me. I am to do with the least have nothing fancy frilly premium expensive 

I am to operate minimally, simply, manually, with the least, ,,, plainly, lean, leanly, .i am to keep my mouth shut expect nothing, never call them out on this behavior or anything they do 

Doesn't want me talking to anyone

 And if I do make it short sweet brief and no personal

Not to give anyone information about anything in my personal life 

Dogs other people around

In the neighbors business

Narcissistic insults 10 most common examples

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Narcissist insults 10 most common examples Narcissist insults

conditional love

 if i do what he she wants thinks i should do then they will "love" me

believes YOU don't or people a person doesn't DESERVE that : anything nice pleasant money things ease comfort luxury

 however they deserve it all

because they

work hard HARDER

work their ass off

break their balls and back to get any and every thing

nothing is ever easy

 says this often

talks about how hard life is and work your ass off

likes to catch me or people off guard with irrelevant questions while I or they are doing something else esp if it is joyful or relaxing

 like as in 

 meal time is one of the favorite times to cause 

upsetting disturbances 

complaints

whining 

 bitching

accusing

threatening

meal time is one of the favorite times to cause upsetting disturbances complaints whining bitching accusing threatening