Thursday, October 17, 2024
Monday, October 7, 2024
Early morning person. Follower. Groupie
energy level higher in the morning
can wake up instantly and fly out of bed alert
checks to see what others are doing
wants to follow norms
compares self to others
often feels insignificant, insecure, unsure, indecisive
gauges activities to see if they think it is right thing to do
asks others opinions on some things like clothing asking 'what do you think of this, what do you think i should do?'
follows things like weather, sports, news, politics, celebrities
music preferences, high pitched and/or slow mellow
one of these people sings slow love romantic type songs with high pitched voice
breakfast enjoyed usually within an hour or less of getting up in the morning
not a coffee drinker. several of them drink tea. all of them like sweet sugar laden drinks
milk drinkers
cereal eaters
snicker bars
easy fixes take or pop a pill
processed ready made foods and drinks liked/preferred
fixed ideas about how a food item should be prepared, cooked, made, taste
gets hot easily
doesn't like to have to shop alot in the store. buys same things over and over so don't have to think about it
prefers taking highway thinking it is fastest route
some make messes cooking and leave the mess for others like me to clean up, some don't cook at all
Tuesday, September 10, 2024
He looks for problems and focuses on them, the bad, negative. I immediately look for solutions to the problem.
he creates problems and complications without realizing he is doing it
any solution presented is instantly rejected
Friday, June 7, 2024
Control Freaks.. Narcs
They are always trying to read my face
trying to figure out what I am thinking and feeling and what I am
going to do then control my thoughts and actions
by telling me
"YOU shouldn't...."
"You SHOULD........"
"Here is what needs to be done... and you OUGHT to be doing this and that."
(NOT what I am working on at the moment, NOT what I have already planned on doing)
do this, do that.. whatever I am doing at the moment is wrong
they believe I should only do things that suits them
as if they are in charge of not only me but anyone around
The parent Dictator. SO I OUGHT TO quit acting that way myself.
NEVER TELL someone else what they ought to do..
QUESTIONS. Badgering me with questions about any and everything, even simple stuff that doesn't need to be asked. This begins most "arguments", battles, fights as they act like they have the right to know all and then dictate what I can and cannot do
Thursday, May 2, 2024
Thursday, April 11, 2024
Wednesday, April 10, 2024
Temper tantrums thrown when things moved around to clean and organize
Yelling, screaming, name calling, calling me stupid, saying I don't make sense, saying he/she doesn't understand my way of thinking.
Saturday, March 30, 2024
Monday, March 11, 2024
Friday, February 9, 2024
Chooses my friends. Says i dont want you hanging out with so and so
I dont want you going over there
Staying too long
I dont want you hanging out there
Wearing out your welcome
Youll end up being like them
They are out to destroy our relationship, up to no good, i dont trust them
Says i am your only friend, others are out to take advantage of you to use you
Thursday, February 8, 2024
Tuesday, February 6, 2024
Monday, January 22, 2024
No personality, not a good one.
not personable
confident, friendly, compassionate
poor communication skills
Friday, January 19, 2024
Tuesday, January 2, 2024
Thursday, December 28, 2023
Friday, October 20, 2023
Wednesday, October 18, 2023
Master of sarcasm
Ridicules criticizes condemns
Jokes about others
Cant take a joke
I better not retaliate by being sarcastic and cruel
Can dish it out cant take it
Spends lots of money on electronics
stereo equipment, electronics, dvd players/recorders, headphones, televisions, reel players, car audio stereo, speakers,
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