Constantly aware focused on what others are doing

Windows : thinks people can see in even though solid cover is over the area

 absolute panic results in him if he thinks a person can see

through any window/door opening at any time and

especially at night if there is a light on

inside 

maybe he was or is a peeper

peeping tom 

spy

looker 

said "can't help but LOOK"

Says " I can't resist " frequently

food 

sex

junk sweets meat chips snacks veggies fruit 

virtually any item that appears edible and in good shape

MY body 

what I am wearing (or NOT) is EVERYTHING

any skimpy outfit, apron maid swimsuit, underwear, bra, panties

jeans pants hose stockings tights (any type of tight clothing)

fishnet/holes in stockings especially incite/"provoke"

MOVEMENT of my body (or ANY Body such as in videos or in person

any where )

Doesn't seem to understand HE is/has ability to control him self/ the self

Fingers and hands grabs touches what he sees lack of control

 seen: food anywhere, grabs it sticks in mouth thoughtlessly

comb in my back pocket; grabs it pulls it out of my pocket 

every time even though i repeatedly told him for years NOT to do this

virtually any item, thing, object around I have seen him

uncontrollably grab, stick fingers in whatever it is without any 

apparent caution or thought about this activity

Believes things/people out to TAKE your/his money

 not admiting it is HIS choice each time

Man /men with money in wallet