Fear based all the way

Assuming things constantly and usually wrong on assumptions. Confused on a consistent basis.

 always trying to figure out what is going on and what someone is doing and why they did it and is often totally wrong on these figuring out what is happening and who is thinking what 

I am in charge here he yells when discussing anything ..

He can't handle disagreements differences variations in other people's thinking, words, actions, appearance

He looks for arguments, picks fights and says I am doing it.

He looks for problems and focuses on them, the bad, negative. I immediately look for solutions to the problem.

 he creates problems and complications without realizing he is doing it

any solution presented is instantly rejected

He likes chaotic music

 says he likes the songs with ups and downs instead of the ones with steady beats

he leaves the radio on blasting loud when he shuts/turns off the car

to me this is annoying as hell