Says all things require hard work

 Busting ass

Back breaking 

Nothing is ever easy with the narc

words commonly used in vocab LIMITED vocabulary to describe most things

has small vocab to describe many things 

can't come up with various adjectives to describe most things situation people

fat cow

 slam (refer to me or anyone disagreeing with him)

chunk

dump (referring to pooping)

pleasant (which he is not most of the time yet expects me to be that way)

tightwad 

pisses me off

you think you know everything

another know it all

Thrives on stress, hardship, difficulty, negativity

 says everything is HARD work

Appreciates almost nothing about me

Doesn't want me talking to anyone

 And if I do make it short sweet brief and no personal

Not to give anyone information about anything in my personal life 

Wants it when it's leaving his house or presence