Believes the only bugs there are what he can visibly see with naked eye MLS

 I started cleaning cabinets again

threw a fit temper tantrum whining yelling

accusing me of throwing away all lids 

claims everytime i look for one i cant find a lid

we ate the rest of the jelly jar i had from a couple of weeks ago ... i came home jar was washed in drainer with sticker label still on it so i put it in dish water to soak off lid. i came home after being gone again 2 days on weekend he had scrubbed off label put in drainer. today claimed i said...putting words in my mouth...that i may have thrown lid away.  i said i never said that. i said i did not see the lid so i didn't throw it away.

gaslighting again trying to make me think i said something i didn't say and did something i did not do

he finds one package of unopened crackers in cabinet sees/saw bug evidence in it and says now the bugs are gone bug problem is solved because he threw away the one pack of crackers he saw them in 

and i say the bugs are in there in the house cabinets pantry anywhere do we need a microscope so you can see then. maybe you will believe it then.