Focuses on OTHER people doing the "right" thing

 does lot of "right" things

however also focused on status public appearance more than actually

defending the people/person in real life

Would never stick their neck out and defend another person

risking their own job like I have done many times

Closed minded, single minded, tight lipped. Secretive

MEDICAL DOCTORS MY HEALTH MEANS NOTHING. RESTRICTED. STOPPED.

MONEY AND SEX RULE

 TOP PRIORITY MONEY

Expects me to make money pay bills restricts schooling education ways to earn money

 no formal education allowed

no ways to do anything at home involving any people

Easily influenced. Swayed, hypnotized, indoctrinated, persuaded, distracted.

Confident people are seen as a threat

One track mind. Lacks critical thinking skills. Black and white thought processes.

Cult follower

 https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a33648485/signs-of-a-cult/

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/how-to-identify-a-cult-six-expert-tips/

https://christiancourier.com/articles/how-to-identify-a-cult

https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-a-cult-5078234

https://www.icsahome.com/articles/characteristics

Fixed rigid inflexible thinking belief patterns. Habitual.

 lacks creative flexiblity

inflexible

often says

i don't believe it

i can't understand

i can't understand why

does same things same ways repeateadly without conscious thought of the idea of changing the behavior

Sex rules he/she said this many times

 she said all they (men) want is one thing

Talks to me in the nastiest hateful tone of voice

 full of contempt

disgust

hate 

hatred

annoyance

smirks

Behavior

 Afraid of what other people think 

Asks opinions but doesn't always listen 

Believes norms must met

Doesn't stand up against bullies and protect the bullied. Is a bully 

Status rules 

Conformity conforms 

Keeps up with traffic 

Curses other drivers 

Wants to mold and control other people and animals 

Says should frequently 

Likes premade kits 

Inflexible Rigid thinking 

Easily angered 

Feels choiceless says I don't have a/much choice 

Expects family and friends to be as the common majority 

Says I just don't think about it 

Crowds and group joiner of different sorts ..this is the protective safety shield to justify behaviors thoughts and words  

Prefers predictable things done the same way 

Appears professional to the public 

Pushes conformity onto their children and expects other families to do the same 

Altering recipes is not acceptable 

Unique preferences are considered weird strange bizarre