7 things narcissists do when they lose control over you
1. a fauxpology fake apology sorry..i am sooo sorry that you're hurting. without change in their behavior
2. hoover discard be on best behavior.
3. chance encounter; plans to show up where they think you usually show up and do. they do it because they know they can trigger you
4. emotional manipulation and blackmail. try to play on your empathy and play victim like you have done something wrong..try to get you to question yourself..
5. make false accusations. such as being a narc, gaslighting, overreact exaggerate your behavior of things you are not actually doing...set you up to try to explain and defend yourself..manipulation and control, to intimidate you
6. the smear campaign .. can start with false accusations. purpose to discredit you so people wont believe you and to get a reaction out of you...if you fight the guiltier you look so dont fight..they want to shut you up keep you quiet....
they want your fight
7. threaten you...any kind of threat
such as expose you, making something up, saying you can get in really big trouble if this comes out and people know this about you,
want to strike fear in your heart
taking something away from you such as fight for custody over children
THEY GET BORED EASILY
KEEP YOUR EMOTIONAL REACTIONS IN CHECK BEC. YOUR EMOTIONS FUEL THEM
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