Leroy Mitchell

 Blamed me for not knowing. Examples: not knowing how to drive a stick shift manual transmission volkwagen when I was 14, not knowing about court and tickets when I was 19

childish temper

threw fits. screamed fix me something to eat when i was 16. grandma had left disappeared. I was alone in house with him. I was scared and called my dad, left the house to live with my parents. gpa threw a fit when my dad came and got my bedroom set and demanded he bring it back

focus on exercise of the body, physical fitness and appearance, NEVER focused on fixing himself and his rotten mean snake personality

yelled had loud voice

impatient with anyone who didn't learn very fast and thought they should know things instantly it may have taken him years to learn

instigated fights with others, grandma and me or anyone in the house especially

"that burns my ass" said often

angry most of the time

impatient driver

competitive

into most sports baseball basketball football especially. was an umpire, referee and a basketball coach

taught p.e. physical education and math most. 

chess game master favorite game

money focused. coin collections. sacajawea was one

lack of empathy. told gma i should go to school when i was 6 years old fractured my skull on a cement curb after i fell off bicycle, first time i had ridden on one. gma kept me in home for one month due to doctors orders

grabbed me by the back of my neck dragged me into the house 

sex focused

hit me on the butt with his fist joked about it saying it must be jam because jelly dont shake like that

stole food off my plate then laughed about it

undesirable to women

things hard work physically is the only thing

being rude is normal 

proud to be an ass hole

not spiritual, not religious. gma went to church on sundays. after she died he said he started going because she had wanted him to go. he never learned basics about being polite and appreciative or spiritual

early riser

watched news and sports results every night

focused on the weather intently

pin oak trees. loved. had 2 planted in the front yard when moved into new house belton missouri in april 1971

yard work focus. gardenining. rose bushes. i had to do the yard, garden, take out trash, rake leaves, clean driveway and all of it beginning when i was 10

instant food expectations. fast food liked alot example mcdonalds which gma hated

had clothes special made at jack henry. shirts 

attorneys hired to go against me to get custody of my son, also hired lots of attorneys lawyers for my son ricky when rick got into trouble due to anger issues 

accusations of me and others. accused my ex husband ed of not paying taxes, of  being child abuser of ricky 

one track mind, gma called him one way corrigan

never appreciates small stuff

critical of everything

hateful, mean

fraudulent possible of insurance company claiming things stolen out of house may have been staged set up

rush push push through all stuff

porn mags looked at playboy was one of them i saw he had 

kicked my dog in the ribs . she was in the garage he was getting ready to go that morning he was pissed about something as usual

no friends social at home 

dental college favorite place to have teeth work done

no night lights in dark house due to penny pinching attitude

fault finder

grew up in poverty

questioned me about stupid trivia 

insulted waitress at restaurant. acted like she couldnt do math. he sneered 

played poker. went to bars after gma died. that is where he met the last woman he married. 

i had to show and model new clothes gma got me for school every year. said turn around ..now i know that meant he wanted to look at my ass

budget one of his favorite words

wonderful, one of his favorite words. said the word wonderful in flat tone when i would say something positive i did or something good that happened 

said little girls around age 5 know the effect they have on men and people

takes a shower in the morning. takes a shower at night before bed.

my husband michael does almost every one of these things. he is so similar it is frightening.