He likes to watch : videos and pictures of things he wants and lusts for

 MLS spent money on and views anything for free when he thinks he wont be caught

JWL (spent tons of money of about everything imaginable)

ECM  EX (spent tons of money on porn mags videos, etc)

I am disposable like a tissue, kleenex or toilet paper

 to 

MLS

Talks to a person only when wants something out of them

 MLS

Whines to me: You've got too much stuff: You don't NEED that !!!!

 MLS

Whines

ZERO interest in my health, education and welfare OR my interests, hobbies, mind, thoughts, feelings: MONEY is top priority

 MLS

this goes way back over 30 years ago

did not want me to go to doctor because of MONEY 

I went to clinic samual rogers to get help with bad infection yeast and unexplained

bleeding from my uterus/ovaries, female organs

Gets rid of, takes, moves my stuff around without my knowledge. IF I did this to his stuff he'd have atom bomb fit temper tantrum RAGE

Gets rid of, takes, moves my stuff around without my knowledge.

I find out later on after he has done it

disposed of ashes of dead relative of mine .. my aunt.. he didn't tell me he was going to do it

i discovered the box missing then asked about it.. he disposed of it somewhere i dont know where

battery back ups i bought brand new at best buy, at least 2 of them gone i dont know where

currently there are missing power supplies for items of mine: ONE< a laptop computer

another item is for a hard drive back up

removed brand new cds out of cases, threw the cds away , kept the cases of my sons professionally made compact discs...did this behind my back i found out later 

MLS